Independently and freely decide your priorities for yourself and have the courage to say Yes as needed and No as needed, but when it comes to “No”, many hesitate or procrastinate to say it. Be true to your free will, your inner self, or your beliefs. Say "No" to others, in a kind, smiling and non-apologetic manner.
To get there, you burn a big "Yes" in yourself. Be sure to do what's best and not what's right for others. Do you think the problem is elsewhere? It's your thinking that's the problem. There is always something you can do to move forward, stop being the victim.
To achieve your personal growth, you need detachment from certain people and certain things. This is how you will move from commitment to support. No one will help you realize yourself; it is you yourself who are (the craftsman) the creator of your own misfortune or happiness. We must therefore make a choice. "If you want to be unhappy or if you want to be happy! "
Proverb: by Renée Molly (Student, Music, Cameroon, Douala, 1999)