Others or those around you need your understanding and empathy. To do this, you need to devote enough time and effort.
Everyone matters, everyone is special. Each is important according to its specificity. And the sun rises for everyone except for the one who prefers to hide in the shade. Luxury depends on person to person. What is luxurious or fashionable for one is already outdated or old fashioned for the other.
Proverb: from Dalmax Kore, Student, Ivory Coast, 1990